Getting into relationship is not that easy. You have to work hard to be able to keep it alive. I have always dream of having a girlfriend so that I'll have someone to call when I'm in deep trouble, but then I realized, it's not that easy. You have to be patient and you have to do everything especially when your a boy. The girl could easily leave you and find another one but for me, finding a girlfriend is really damn hard. Courting may be easy as 1,2,3 for the other boys but for me, it is harder than answering a limit of a trigonometric function, especially when you court a very experienced girl. You have to prove to her first that what you feel for her is really true and then she will make you wait for a very very long time just for a simple "will you be my girl" question which can be answered by yes or no. Some boys are lucky because they can even get a girl for less than 24 hours, but the question is, is it really "true love?"
When you already have a girlfriend you may think that your quest is over, but hey dude! it is just the beginning. There are may challenges in keeping a relationship strong. Others only last for at most three months and some could not even reach that span of time. Temptation is the number one reason for break ups. Boys are boys and you can not stop them for admiring girls. While girls can always look for substitutes whenever they feel boring with their boyfriends.
The boys should guide their girl, and that is the best thing to do. A boy should do everything just to satisfy his girl and the girl should not abuse that. We are just human and not a superhero. We have certain limitations and both sides must understand that limitations. Lovers should have time for each other so that they can show how they love each other.
If I would be given a second chance to handle a relationship, I would do all i can just to make it last. I will show her that I need her more each day and she should grab on to me and never let go because I'll be her incredible absorbing man.
